Glamorous and geeky

Instagram, yep it is still king, still one of the top social media apps. And damn is it hard to grow on there. My following grows and shrinks every day, when I reach out to brands for opportunities, followers, followers,followers. Not enough. So then I focused on that. Never bought followers, that is just massively cheating. But, I joined the pods to find other blogs and inspo. Or at least that is what I told myself. JavaScript is currently disabled in this browser. Reactivate it to view this content. And then there are the likes. Not enough of them. Ugh, I just can not win.And of course like so many bloggers on instagram, the pods.  Yup. I joined those as did many others I know. But, is it a good thing? And by the way I can not tell you, how many growth posts I have seen on Pinterest that tell you to join the pods and all that. Just wow. But, brands are starting to look at alllllllllll of the numbers. Some may still look at the superficial, but more and more are getting the whitel...

 I’m sitting here trying to think about what to freaking write, and while I wanted to share more history stuffs, I think I need to share this instead. On instagram yesterday, to be exact, I was browsing around and came across another influencer reels. She was showing her outfits in 2019 and parts of 2020 I believe and then she mention how she wore what she thought peo0e wanted her to wear. And I guess what people would be so judgmental on. Then bam a glow up and she was wearing sequins and bright outfits. And gorgeous outfits. She was glowing in the outfits she really wanted to wear. And showed what she wanted to dress like when she stopped caring what others thought. And then another was a 50 year old lady who was told to stop dressing like a teen. To which she was like yeah nah.  And I am just...here for it.  Honestly, I was starting to dress how other people were wearing and thinking how a  mom, not woman, people tend to forget that whole there is another aspect t...

  Women's High-Waisted Liquid Leggings - Wild FableTM • Wild Fable • $16 Tabby Chain Clutch • Coach • $325 Too Faced Cosmetics Too Faced Melted Matte - Lady Balls • $22 STEVE MADDEN Pump • Steve Madden • $157 Moto Jacket • Coach • $1,250 Free People U-Neck Tank • Free People • $20 “What do you want for Christmas?” My husband asked me one day. I told him a new book and Fantasia. He then asked me after all the gifts were unwrapped why I wanted Fantasia of all things. Well it is really simple. Let me explain. When I was a kid one of my fondest memories was popping in the VHS of Fantasia and watching it with my grandma around Christmas time. It is a memory that has stuck with me. It is what I feel keeps me close to my grandmother. I don’t need any of things that really belonged to her to feel close, Fantasia is all I need. Yes, there are things in that movie that are by today’s standards not that great. And some controversy in some parts. But it is the memories of the m...