Blogging is fun! Affordable Shein pumpkin sweater and Target leggings.

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Blogging is fun. For a while it did not seem that way for me it seemed like a burden and a hassle. I think mostly because my blog on my self hosted site was always and is always breaking. I was getting tired of finding a way to post when files are missing and code is broken. And being blacklisted thanks to the server we are on did not help. My numbers were crap and I was blaming me for it 100% as I always tend to do. Truth is it was mostly bad hosting. With just a few weeks (like 2) on blogger, my views are up and more than on the go daddy Wordpress bull crap. Go figure. 

I feel like I did years ago blogging. It is fun again! And with COVID being around I find myself going back to shooting at home in my little corner here in the bedroom. And yeah I still go out and shoot, but I don’t beat myself up for not having those out in public editorial shots. I don’t need them! And that is ok, I do go at least 3 times a week for photos out of the house . Planned outfits in a great location! But there is something more real about the at home photos. 





But, yeah, I a, glad blogging is fun for me again. I feel my passion is back and that is the part of blogging that is the best. The passion, the other stuff comes later. You got to have passion for it. Work hard and never stop learning how to improve and listen to your inner voice.



 






The outfit.
I am wearing my new Shein sweater shirt. In the seasons hottest color, or one of the colors. Rust or pumpkin orange . It is every where, and this top is so cute! I love the puffy sleeves and the soft fabric. And of course the price! And leggings from target are always a win! 
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